Weak Hands and Feeble Knees
Bad things happen to good people and how we handle those "things" usually determine our eternal destinies. God is not angry with us when He allows certain things to happen. We are His children and whatever happens is more than just chance - it's a divine plan to make us more like His Son, Jesus Christ
By Lisa McDonald
Hebrews
12:11-12
Isaiah
35:3-4
Have
you ever wondered why “bad things” happen to “good” people? Well, I know
this isn’t a news flash to any of us but “bad things” also happen to
“saved” people. People who are saved, who believe on the Lord Jesus Christ
for their salvation and are living for His glory, still live in a fallen world
where
we all experience difficult situations. These can be as small as a hang nail or
paper cut on up to a grander scale such as a loss of a job or death of a family
member. The word “bad” is a relative term. What is difficult to me may not
mean as much to you, but everyone can agree on one thing - the more “bad” you
get, the weaker you may feel.
Someone
gave me some advice during a hard time in my life. They said that I must be
doing what God wants me to do or Satan wouldn’t be attacking me in such a
violent way. I believe this statement is true, but we too have to understand
that everything that happens to us MUST flow through God’s hands. Deut 3:8
says that God humbled his people. Heb. 12:11 says that God disciplines. Does
this mean that God is allowing Satan to attack us or is God disciplining us
Himself? That may be a subject for theologians to ponder, but the real
question is such….when these times affect us when we are so tired and exhausted,
weak and feeble from the “bad things”, what do we do? Does it mean I am less
of a Christian when these things come my way? What does it say about my faith
when these things happen to me? Will I ever be strong again and if, then how?
A
walk down the Bible Hall of Fame will help us to see some mighty men and women
of the faith who were also weak at times. They were followers of God, most of
them in specific ministries, but had their moments of fleshly weaknesses.
Sometimes what makes us weak may be the outside attacks we receive, but they
could also be from internal attacks as well. We are our own worst enemy. When we
became children of God, all of our fleshly desires and thoughts did not vanish
away (even though it would have made our lives much more simpler.) That is why
the Word says we are to go from “faith to faith’.
Let’s
take a look:
David
- A man after God’s own heart, killer of Goliath but yet yielded to adultery
Elijah
- A powerful man who was able to bring down rain and fire from heaven; who had
faith to pray for days - but yielded to thoughts of suicide and depression
Peter
- One of the primary leaders of the faith, but prior to Christ’s death denied
knowing Him.
Samson
- Listed as a mighty judge but allowed lust to be his downfall.
Sarah
- Seeing her old age, she laughed at God’s revelation concerning a child and
doubted God’s ability to bring life back into her womb so she presented her
husband with her hand maid.
Aaron
- Moses’ brother, who assisted in the great Exodus and was used mightily as
Moses’ spokesman, gave in to idolatry and the worship of the golden calf.
All
these people were trying to serve God (“saved” people lets say) yet had a
bad thing happen to them (either due to a weakness inside or from an outward
attack.)
A
problem I have had in the past is legalism. I would try my best to adhere to
what God wanted me to do (pray, fast, tithe, witness, etc.) but when something
bad happened to me I felt that God was not happy with my efforts and that I MUST
HAVE done something wrong, or not in the proper order, or not at all. My past
impression of God as a heavenly judge over our behavior is basically correct,
but slightly warped. God IS a judge over our behavior and He does discipline us
to get us back on track, but He isn’t sitting in heaven watching us with
anticipation, hoping we mess up just to punish us. His love is so overwhelming
that we, the inhabitants of this world, could never grasp it’s intensity. Just
as you love your children enough to punish them for playing with matches or
walking in front of a car, God loves us even more. He knows that if we pray
(showing our love for Him) He will be able to give us the answer we have been
waiting on so He lovingly corrects us to the point where we know He wants us to
pray. If at that point we do not listen, then He uses different maybe even more
extreme measures to get our attention.
Another
area where I continue to work toward victory is fear and worry. Legalism plays a
part in this also…. let me explain. For instance, let’s say I got a speeding
ticket. The legalism part of me may say, “Well, I know God doesn’t want me
to speed so this is what I get. He is unhappy with me for disobeying Him so my
punishment is paying this ticket.” So I continue on, depressed that I have
disappointed by Heavenly Father; mad at myself because I know I may have a
problem with speeding but can’t seem to conquer it; committing myself to doing
more for God to get on “His good side” again.
Worry
and fear come in when I start thinking about where I am going to get the extra
money to pay for the ticket, worry about my driving record (how will this affect
my insurance), and worry over how to tell my husband. My human side will try to
rationalize “why” I was speeding (providing a reasonable explanation for the
infraction) because the flesh wants to be comfortable and wants to know it is
always right.
When
I analyze the problem in this way, it seems irrational and the proper response
seems apparent. But in reality, it is all too easy to go the route I have just
described. When we continue with fear, worry, depression, or routine
fundamentals due to legalism, we can get tired and weak because we start to
wonder why we even try. That is why it is so important to train our minds not to
fear, but to concentrate on the fact that God has more strength than I could
ever use and He wants to supply me with it if I will only ask. God has more than
enough peace to spread around to those who fear, if we would only humble
ourselves and admit our apprehension. God has a plan for our lives and specifics
on how He wants us to maintain our Christian walk (Bible study, prayer, tithing,
etc.) without us having to plan it ourselves and question our ability. Just know
that our ability is less than adequate already and that we can never be perfect.
After we concrete that in our minds, the rest seems a little easier. (But it
doesn’t give us a license not to try, though.)
Going back to our scriptures,
what does God say about our weakness: In Hebrews 12 it says we are to, “brace
up, reinvigorate and to set right” our weak and drooping hands and to
‘strengthen” our knees. Isaiah says for us to “strengthen” our hands and to
“make firm” our knees. To me, God is saying that He wants our hands to be ready
to work again and that our knees need to be strong to allow us to stand in any
situation.
A
side note: It makes sense to me that if God is telling us to reinvigorate
ourselves, it doesn’t sound like He wants us to wallow or have pity parties
about what is going on and to stay in this situation indefinitely. (Ouch!
Don’t worry, that is another article for another time.)
Well, if we do this for God, what are the benefits? The Bible is full of benefits of why we should serve God, but let’s just look at these two scriptures as a start.
After discipline there will come a peaceable fruit of righteousness
God will be our vengeance
Think
about those things a moment. If we do things, “God’s way”, we will have
peace, He will take care of those who harm us and He will save us from the
“bad things” that happen. Isn’t that great? We don’t have to be agitated
and nervous to the point of exhaustion. We don’t have to plan our revenge on
those who are causing us grief because if we are righteous in our dealings, God
will deal with our adversaries. And, praise the Lord, we will be saved because
God will come to us! Read that again, God will come
to us and save us. God isn’t waiting for us to be the perfect Christian or
to pray so many hours or give so much money for Him to help us. He doesn’t
have a scratch pad with a good side and bad side and determines when He
intervenes due to how many marks on each side. God will come to us and save us.
BUT, we have to do our part by strengthening our limbs and setting right our
stance. We can be strong and victorious, no matter our circumstance or
situation, due to God’s power that lives within us.
By
concentrating on His power over our weaknesses, we will grow stronger every day.